I haven't read the book. I haven't even purchase it!
I just went through the summary of each chapter of The Secret and it feels like multiple slaps, very hard on my face. And for every relatable, truth-hurts words, I decided to jot all of them here in my journal.

I was browsing through my YouTube suggestions and The Secret came out. My mind went like, oh this seems great. Some words got into me and I was like.. My, oh my.. Why does it took me so long to finally meeeet youuuu?! I did share some words with some close friends and yes we're all ended up agreeing to The Secrets that has been revealed by Rhonda Byrne in this book. My friends and I, we make this 2020 Sisterhood Pact to becoming a better us, striving our best to find some better ways on how to live with no regrets.

Because in 2020, I made a promise to me, that it's gonna be all about me, putting me first, treating me better, and having a good relationship with myself, first and foremost. All the toxic life and toxic me, I've gotta leave it all behind. I have to release the baggage, and focusing on a better me.

Sharing some simple but joyful things I want to do(more) for me in 2020 :)

• Start writing a Love Letter to myself (Which is this blog! Oh hey it's done! yay!) 
• Write at least one post per month (not bad for a restart right? Let's see how many entries will be posted throughout the year :P)
• Join the Advanced English Course for Business & Professional (I notice that my English has been a bit rusty and I need to do something about it)
• More quality time spend well with family and good friends
• To fill my cup first before trying to fill others
• Love every bits of myself, good, bad and everything in between
• Find a new job
• To sweat out more (consistently)
• To laugh more
• To enjoy my job (or a new one)
• Start Project XX with Meme, for our travel fund
• Oh yes, I think I need a new car 😏
• Etc.. (The list may grow eventually)

And of course all those revolution wishes are nothing without a do. So, congratulation to me on the creation of Nadhirology! Let's hope this will turn out to be great! (After years of leaving this writing world, now I'm back!)

As for today, here's some words that I wanna share with all of you:

CHAPTER 5 : THE SECRET TO RELATIONSHIPS 

"Before you understand others, you need to understand yourself first. How can you ever expect anyone else to enjoy your company if you don’t enjoy your own company? Do you treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you? If you want others to love you, you have to first love yourself, and then love others. Look for the positives in you, and you will see more of the same. Begin with no prolonged thought of something good about you."

Until next letter,

adios.

Have a good time with yourself.